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RyJa, Portland, Goonies & Pacific

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This past weekend was wonderful and sad all at the same time. We saw some amazing coastal areas, quaint little towns and beautiful skies, but we had to say good-bye to Ryan and Jaime. They’re moving to Ithaca, New York.

Saturday was their last day in Seattle and we decided to drive with them to Portland. Since they still had some moving stuff to do, we got a head start, taking some back roads and old alignments, mostly of Old US 99. We were often in the shadow of I-5. Driving through towns like Roy, Rainier and Tenino were a nice break from city driving.

In Tenino, we saw an old marker for the Oregon Trail. It was actually the Cowlitz Trail at this point, but neat anyway. We saw a huge tree house in Centralia, as well as a restored train station (still in use).

Our first glimpse of Mount St. Helens came just after Chialis. We pulled over right after a sign that read: “EAT” in big letters. I love those. Jackson Highway took us south past the Jackson House, home of John R. Jackson and his wife, early pioneers in this area (1845).

Toledo, Washington, a grubby little town with an IGA, I saw one of the coolest murals in all my years of traveling. It was done up like the outside of a movie theater with “posters” advertising area attractions like the Jackson House, the Cowlitz Mission and Mt. St. Helens. Very fun. The town also boasted a pizza shop with a huge cross on top of it. Strange.

The biggest town before Vancouver, WA is Longview. It was nice and to be honest, the scenery so far wasn’t much to write about. We went through a lot of ex-prairie. We drove around Longview, somehow missing the “Nutty Narrows Squirrel Bridge.” We need to start researching this stuff before leaving on trips.

Night was falling, so we found a motel just north of Vancouver, WA, called Ryan and Jaime to tell them the location and in an or so, they were there with us again!

The kids (ages two and four) seemed to think that Sarah and I owned the motel. That was pretty neat and sort of makes me want to own a motel someday. Maybe someday. We hung out with them for a couple of hours until we were all too tired to do anything but sleep.

Next morning, we woke up early and headed into Portland for breakfast at Sweet Pea, a vegan pastry/breakfast shop. We all ate ourselves stupid.

An hour later it was time to say good-bye. I gave Taviri and Arkaedi a bunch of hugs and kisses and hugged Ryan and Jaime so long. Sarah and I were both pretty teary as they drove away. I know they had to go and it really is better for them in the long run, but Seattle will feel very empty without them. They were what made this place home for us. I hope they come back and I know that even if they don’t, this won’t be the last time they’ll be geographically near to us. I’m going to miss them something terrible.

To lessen the sadness, we did some shopping at Food Fight, a vegan convenience store and at the Herbivore store – a storefront for the magazine. We got some snacks and I got a belt. It’s just like the one I already have, but it’s smaller because I’ve lost a little weight. Now that’s a purchase I don’t mind making!

We made out way out of Portland, heading west to the coast on US 26. Rain was on and off while we drove, but mostly it was kept to a minimum. We saw a sad “Lost Dog” flyer at a rest area – a little cartoon dog said “I miss my family.” The road was pretty, but still nothing spectacular. That is, until we reached the coast.

The town of Canon Beach was our first stop for the day. We had two sites from the movie The Goonies to visit – this was our first. In the movie, a clue to One Eyed Willie’s treasure was found in a medallion. If you matched up the rocks along the coast to the holes in the medallion, you were at the start of the search for the treasure. The largest rock is called Haystack Rock and that’s what we saw.

I took way too many pictures of this rock. The beach itself was great – tons of sand dollars had washed up. All were broken, but it was neat to see. I’ve never seen that before. On the opposite end of the beach are more rocks – also in the movie. I climbed up a really steep trail to get some better pictures. Good thing I did.

North of Canon Beach, we found Fort Stevens State Park. Within that park is an old ship wreck and a battery installation originally built around the time of the Civil War. We got to poke around both. The fort was fired upon by a Japanese sub during World War II. They fired 17 rounds at the base, making it the first time since the War of 1812 that a continental US military installation was fired upon. Fort Stevens, however, did not fire back in fears of giving away their position to the enemy.

Next up was Astoria, Oregon, home of The Goonies! We found the house and thankfully the owners are proud of their Goonie heritage. A sign at the bottom of their driveway welcomed all Goonies on foot, asking us not to drive up to the house. Another few folks were there and one guy even did the Truffle Shuffle (I tried to get Smartz to do it, but she refused). The house itself look much better than it did in the movie. Data’s house was right next to it. One thing I forgot to do was get my own picture taken in front of it. Oh well, next time. We saw a bunch of seals there too. Even an old street car. Astoria is amazing and I can’t wait to go back.

Across the Columbia River from Astoria is Fort Columbia, one of the defenses build in the early 1900s. It reminded me most of Fort Casey, which we visited a couple of months ago. This wasn’t nearly as large, but it did have a couple of really huge canons.

We poked around for a bit and then headed to Cape Disappointment to do some more poking around. There was an old artillery instillation there too (named Fort Canby). Unfortunately, we weren’t able to spend too much time there. It was named by a member of the Lewis & Clark expedition – he had hoped to find boats there, but did not.

With the day slipping away from us, we decided to head north to Long Beach. This is probably as close to the Jersey Shore as the west coast is going to get. There’s a boardwalk, but nothing on it (in the Jersey sense). All of those shops are in the downtown area. There’s even bumpercars, nasty food and Marsh’s Free Museum.

The Free Museum was great! Mostly it’s a huge gift shop with some great old contraptions inside. You’ll have to see the pictures.

Long Beach boasts not only the longest beach in the world (really?), but the largest frying pan as well.

The trip home was actually really nice. We stayed on US 101 and went through a bunch of small towns that, upon first glance, seem to deserve little mention, but all of them are worth a second look. Raymond, for example, had the coolest playground that I’ve ever seen. Also, it has a great old theater. Most of the towns were like this (though maybe not on the level of Raymond).

We arrived back in Seattle well after 9pm. I wish we could have spent more time at these places and I really do wish that we didn’t have to say good-bye to Ryan and Jaime.

All in all a wonderful weekend! Thanks for reading.

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Please Stay! (Though I know you really can’t and that’s alright)

This past week brought some sweet & sour news to my little part of Seattle. Ryan, Jaime and the kids are all moving to Ithaca so that Ryan can get his masters degree and become a real life teacher of children. It’s sweet because it’s what he wants to do and he’d be quite good at it. But it’s a bit sour because I’m going to miss like like crazy.

We kicked around the idea of moving away ourselves, especially since RyJa are moving. But the likelihood of that happening, especially since Smartz just got an awesome job at a printshop, is nil.

They are doing it the right way with a big trip across the country. I’m helping in the planning of the trip, but mostly I would like them to stay.

Since I can’t really put it into words, I thought I’d let Mary Jo, Bobo and Brain Guy do it for me.




I don’t expect the outcome to be the same, of course. And hopefully RyJa will return in a year or so. We will be waiting with bells on, etc.

Hurry.

Nikki Visits Seattle

Nikki visited Seattle this past weekend and we all had a ball. We took her on a short tour of Seattle and the out lying areas. It was quite a bit of fun and we took pictures!

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Christmas trains and breaking two little kids’ hearts in a matter of minutes

Yesterday morning, I got a message from Ryan asking if I wanted to head down with them to Seattle Center (where the Space Needle lives) to check out the train layout and, apparently, the cold. Of course, I said “sure!”

He picked me up and wound our way down Aurora Ave to the Worlds Fair Grounds. We parked across the street from Bamboo Gardens, walked around a parking garage and across 5th Street. Ryan had Arkaedi stuffed in backpack and Taviri was spazzing out a few paces behind us.

In the park, there’s a water fountain that’s a gigantic crater with a huge metal ball in it. The metal ball fountains the water, though mostly in summer. Arkaedi saw it first and pointed, saying “ball! ball! ball!” We peeked over the crater’s edge to stare in awe at the ball ball ball.

Though the temperature was 45, it was a bit chillier than I had anticipated. I was only wearing a hoodie. Arkaedi and I were the only ones with hats.

After the ball, we went inside one of the old Fair buildings. They’ve turned it into a huge foodcourt minus the mall. It’s got strange things strewn about the place, including a huge chunk of the Berlin Wall. This is where the train layout was.

Anyone who knows me knows I’m all for trains. As far as model trains go, I’m more into the HO scale. Even the Lionel scale is quite nice. This layout was larger than that, however, it was very well done. Congratulations, Seattle!

The set up was a town from maybe the 1920s with a fire hall, a theater, blacksmith shop and many Norman Rockwell kinds of homes. Several trains, all old locomotives, run through the town, over bridges and through inexplicable tunnels.

Having quite a bit of the train, the kids sat down, Arkaedi in a pink chair and Taviri in a blue one. Arkaedi made sure that we all knew that she was in a pink chair and “baba” (brother? Bubba?) had blue.

Also in the foodcourt was a giant Christmas tree. As we walked the kids over, we got several very pleased nods from “progressive” Seattleites who thought we were a gay couple. If they only knew.

At the Christmas Tree, Taviri told me about his own Christmas tree while Arkaedi told me about the blue birds on the tree in front of us. She then became a cat, dropped to all fours and began meowing. This tickled a few folks around us, but held us up a bit.

What were we late for? We were late for heartbreak.

Another part of this park is the carousel. Being a two year old girl, Arkaedi loves horses. As we approached the carousel, she giggled and said “nay! nay! nay!!” But she was too small to ride, so while Ryan took Taviri, I got to hang out with Arkaedi, who was very seriously not happy about this. I picked her up in my arms so she could get a better view.

“Baba ride.” she says to me.

“Yep, Baba’s riding the horse.” I reply.

“Me ride?” she asks.

“Well… let’s just watch Baba ride,” I said trying to avoid what I knew what coming.

She paused for a bit and looked at me, just a little sad. “Me ride…. Me ride?”

“Look! It’s Papa and Baba! Wave to them!” What else could I say here?

“No… down.” She was serious now. I was clearly to blame for this.

“You want me to put you down?”

“Hmph!” When she says “hmph!” you’ve been cut off. She really means it.

So I put her down beside me. She was this close to crying. I gave her a little hug and stayed on her level.
I asked her if she wanted me to pick her up again.

She very sadly answered, “No.”

“Do you want to hold my hand?”

“No.”

“Well… how about my finger?” (Sometimes she’s ok with that.)

“No.”

She was still very close to tears, so I ask, “Did I break your heart?”

“…. No.” She had to think about it.

“Can I stay here and talk to you?”

More thought and then, “….. yeah.”

Ryan and Taviri exited the ride and she was clearly heartbroken that I was so mean that I didn’t let her ride on the horses.

Me ride?Ryan carried Arkaedi who was now scowling at me. Taviri was spazzing around us and when I looked to see exactly where, I saw him going for a couple of very used cigarettes in a nasty ashtray. I shout out to him “Oh no! Tavari! That’s nasty! It’s like… poop! Don’t touch it!”

I usually don’t raise my voice (because, you know, why would I have to?), so Taviri suddenly got shy and really sad that I “yelled.” He wouldn’t talk to me, either. He wasn’t mad, but just too sad to talk.

So there you go, I broke two warm little hearts in a matter of minutes.

By the time we got to the car, Taviri was fine with me, but Arkaedi was still not thrilled. I talked to her a little bit and finally got a high five out of her. She wouldn’t give me a hug, but a high five means I’m once again on the road to her good graces.

I guess this was my Christmas outing. Good friends and trains, heartbreak and high fives – that about sums it up.

Living in or living near Seattle?

Yesterday, Ryan, Smartz, the kids and I took a trip out to Issaquah, a small town just outside of Seattle. We hiked up Tiger Mountain, one of the Issquah Alps. It was a beautiful day and nice to get out of the city.

City life.Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love living in Seattle. Even though our neighborhood is the home of crack deals and hooker motels, it’s a great place. Ok, maybe not great. We don’t go out at night, but we really don’t feel threatened or anything.

Seattle offers a ton of great things to do. You’ve probably heard me go on and on about all of these things over and over. It’s got everything I could ever want. Except countryside.

My passion, as you might have guessed, is riding. I’ve got two scooters and both are incredibly fun to ride. Riding in the city is alright, it’s much better than driving. But riding in the countryside is where the true passion of my passion resides.

Tiger MountainLiving where we do, we’re basically city-locked (sort of like being land-locked). We’ve got a huge lake to the east, the Sound to the west, more city to the north and even more city to the south. Getting to the open road is no easy task from where we are.

The thought of living in the Issaquah area is an interesting one. Ryan and Jamie are thinking of that area as well. It would be nice to continue living near them. It would also be nice to be near the countryside. In any one of the many number of towns around Seattle, you’re right up against a mountain or near a river or waterfalls. There are rolling hills and farms, country roads and history.

Seattle is great. I love living here. But maybe living near Seattle would be even better.

A Day at the Evergreen State Fair!

I secretly love county/state fairs. I can’t get to the Bloomsburg fair this year, but the Evergreen State Fair, just 20 miles north of Seattle is nearly as good!

Missing is the “freak show” and the hordes of strange people from the coal region. There’s no Stanky and the Coal Miners, either. But even without that stuff, it was a very fun day.

We spent much of the morning and afternoon walking the not-very-crowded fairgrounds, taking in the sights and eating fantastically greasy curly fries. We saw animals, tractors, a creepy ride that was at Michael Jackson’s Neverland Ranch and had frozen lemonade.

I took tons of pictures and have them displayed for you with fun captions.

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Evergreen State Fair!

Smartz snorted three times while looking at the pictures and reading the captions. Maybe you’ll snort too.

Ryan wrote about the day here.

And Samrtz writes about it here.

More info on the fair is here.

Just checking in…

As some have noticed, I’ve not had a whole lot to say lately. I guess not a whole lot has been happening since seeing Plan 9 from Outer Space.

Since then, I’ve been working, so there’s not been a ton of time to do a lot of things. That didn’t stop me from a visit to Mighty O’s with Ryan and family.

workWork has been better (or I’m growing more numb to it). I’m learning more about the store and am able to help customers more. It really bugged me when I was told to not really help anyone, just sit there and let customer service take care of it. That’s fun, but often they’re not there or busy, so that leaves me sitting there looking at a phone that doesn’t ring all that much.

But this past weekend, I was a problem solver and customer disarmer. Some customers get amazingly upset over the lack of service that this store provides. We are understaffed and make too many promises to customers. The “if more than three people are waiting at a register, we’ll call up more cashiers” idea is taken to heart. Customers really do expect them to show up. Funny, eh? And they really hate when someone promises them that something will be done “around noon” and it’s not done even by the end of the night. I had to clean up that little mess.

I’m fairly good at keeping customers from flipping out. Who knew?

henryI guess maybe I am good at retail. Not at selling, because honestly, you’d probably be better off if you’d not spend your money, but at helping people not be angry. Nifty.

Aside from work, I’ve been reading “I Rode With Stonewall” by Henry Kyd Douglas, which I thought I had read before, but now I don’t believe I have. I’m enjoying it. Douglas was an aide to Stonewall Jackson and his retelling of events is well done.

I also tried to read a couple of books full of essays about the big “what ifs” in American history. Like, “what if Washington didn’t cross the Delaware?” and “what if America lost the battle of New Orleans?” I should love stuff like this, but the book Almost America is completely unreadable. Horrible writing, poorly researched history and just really really bad.

TEENS!In other news, I’ve discovered two shows that really aren’t half bad. The first is a new one called Glee about a teacher who takes over a Glee Club that covers classic rock songs. It’s quirky and doesn’t quite have its center yet (there’s only one episode), but I hope it takes off. It could be really good.

Another show that surprised me is the one with Molly Ringwald playing a mom. Secret Life of the American Teenager. I had only heard the title before and wrote it off as a reality show about teenagers – not something that would really interest me. Movies about teenagers are one thing (RIP, John Huges), but real life teenagers are a little scary. I’ll pass. (No offense to teenagers, of course – you’re a good lot.)

Oh, and the show Community with John McHale and Chevy Chase is really really funny. I hope it makes it.

I guess that’s all I have to say. Smartz returns from Pennsylvania on Tuesday. I’ve not really taken advantage of the otherwise empty apartment. No keggers, stag parties or scooter rallies so far. I have one more night to make it happen. Wish me luck.